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　　成年东说念主想过儿童节，早已不是什么极新事。左证《2024中国玩物和婴童用品行业发展白皮书》，模子机甲、卡牌、手办等面向成东说念主的类目均有向上100%的增长，尤其在客岁儿童节本事，成年东说念主成了这一范围的主角。儿童节成为了“过时儿童”们的狂欢”，为什么成年东说念主如斯热衷于过儿童节？约略，不错在那些对于“童心”的名言里找到谜底。

　　“常德不离，复归于婴儿。”——老子

　　老子在《说念德经》里建议，最高的德行是回来婴儿般的地说念状况。婴儿莫得统统，莫得造作，饿了就哭，承诺就笑。“复归于婴儿”，即找回生命最先的真挚与目田。

　　当代东说念主过儿童节，某种历程上亦然在践行老子的贤达——用一天时分，放下社会面具，允许我方像孩子同样简便欢乐。

　　“孩子在纤小的眉月的寰宇里，是一切管理齐莫得的。”——泰戈尔

　　孩子之是以能跅弛不羁地驱驰、大笑、瞻仰地探索寰宇，是因为他们尚未被社会的律例驯化。他们的欢乐是地说念的，不掺杂功利、焦躁或野心。

　　而成年东说念主想过儿童节，某种历程上是在寻找这种“不受管理的力量”。使命的无语、房贷的压力、东说念主际联系的复杂，让好多东说念主逐渐失去了“乖张由欢乐”的能力。于是，他们选拔在儿童节这一天瞬息地“撒泼”——那些在茶水间吹泡泡、放工直奔电玩城的白领们，不是在走避成长，而是在实施生命的原始教唆。

　　“东说念主生便是大闹一场，然后悄然离去。”——金庸

　　金庸的这句话，约略并非特指童年，但它偶然方单合了成年东说念主对“童真”的渴慕。孩子不错毫无费心地“大闹”——在泥坑里打滚、把树枝当刀剑。而成年东说念主被条款“体面”“谨防”，连大笑齐要商议款式。

　　于是，儿童节成了成年东说念主“正当大闹”的借口，有东说念主组团去游乐土坐旋转木马，有东说念主在公司里组织“怀旧零食共享会”。这种“大闹”，不是恣意，而是对生命本真状况的瞬息回来。

　　“整个的大东说念主齐照旧是小孩，固然惟有少数东说念主铭刻。”——《小王子》

　　圣-埃克苏佩里的这句话，险些成了成年东说念主过儿童节的最好辩说词。咱们照旧齐是孩子，仅仅自后被社会规训成了“及格的大东说念主”。但总有一些时刻——比如看到彩虹、听到老练的动画主题曲、闻到小时候的糖果香——阿谁被渐忘的小孩会转眼冒出来，好意思好的回忆涌上心头。

　　儿童节，便是成年东说念主集体“记起我方曾是小孩”的日子。

　　“孩子的目光是直线的，不会转弯。”——丰子恺

　　在成年东说念主的寰宇里，咱们民风了间接婉转地抒发，民风了算计他东说念主的心念念。而在儿童节，咱们不错松弛这种老例，像孩子同样直白地抒发我方的喜怒无常。和一又友集合时，不再压抑我方的情谊，承诺就放声大笑，痛心就尽情倾吐。

　　“从卖气球的小贩那处，每个孩子齐带走了一个心愿。”——北岛

　　北岛这句诗形容了孩童期间最动东说念主的脾气——对寰宇充满轻微的期待。在这个脚步急忙的寰宇里，保捏童心，意味着阻隔被透顶同化，意味着仍然瞻仰星空、称心为一单方面子的云停驻脚步。成年东说念主过儿童节，本色上是一场“摒弃的抵牾”——抵牾无趣，抵牾麻痹，那些被履行压缩的理想、被律例管理的摒弃，会在儿童节空闲的氛围中瞬息苏醒。

　　援用这些名言，不是为了给“装嫩”找借口，而是想默契：童心无关年事，而是一种选拔。是以，本年的儿童节，不妨打抱不山地过。因为看护内心阿谁小孩，本便是终生成长的必修课。

　　It's no longer a novelty for adults to celebrate Children's Day. According to the “2024 China Toy and Child Product Industry Development White Paper,“ categories targeting adults, such as model mechs, cards, and garage kits, have all seen growth exceeding 100%. Particularly during last year's Children's Day, adults emerged as the main consumers in this sector. Children's Day has become a carnival for 'expired kids'—why are adults so eager to celebrate it? Perhaps the answer can be found in those aphorisms about “childlike innocence.“

　　“The simple child again, free from all stains.“ ——Laozi

　　Laozi proposed in the “Tao Te Ching“ that the highest virtue is to return to the pure state of a baby. Babies have no calculation, no hypocrisy; they cry when hungry and laugh when happy. “Returning to the state of a baby“ means regaining the authenticity and freedom of life at its inception.

　　Celebrating Children's Day is a way for modern people to embrace Laozi's wisdom by setting aside social facades and allowing themselves to be simple and happy like children.

　　“Baby was so free from every tie in the land of the tiny crescent moon.“ ——Tagore

　　Children can run, laugh, and explore the world with curiosity without restraint because they have not yet been domesticated by society's rules. Their happiness is pure, free from utilitarianism, anxiety, or calculation.

　　Adults who celebrate Children's Day are, to some extent, seeking this “unrestricted power.“ The fatigue of work, the pressure of mortgages, and the complexity of social relationships have caused many to lose the ability to be happy without reason. Therefore, they choose to “run wild“ on Children's Day—white-collar workers blowing bubbles in the break room or heading straight to the arcade after work are not escaping adulthood but following life's primal directives.

　　“Life is about making a big fuss and then quietly leaving.“ ——Jin Yong

　　Jin Yong's words, perhaps not specifically referring to childhood, unexpectedly resonate with adults' longing for “childlike innocence.“ Children can “make a big fuss“ without any reservations—rolling in the mud, using sticks as swords. Adults are always expected to be “dignified“ and “steady,“ even having to consider the occasion before laughing heartily.

　　Thus, Children's Day has become an excuse for adults to “legally make a fuss,“ with some people going to amusement parks together to ride the carousel and others organizing “nostalgic snack sharing sessions“ at their companies. This “making a fuss“ is not willfulness but a brief return to the true state of life.

　　“All adults were once children, though few remember it.“ ——“The Little Prince“

　　Saint-Exupéry's words have almost become the best defense for adults celebrating Children's Day. We were all children once, but society has trained us into “qualified adults.“ Yet there are always moments—such as seeing a rainbow, hearing a familiar cartoon theme song, or smelling the candy from childhood—when that forgotten child suddenly emerges, flooding the heart with beautiful memories.

　　Children's Day is the day when adults collectively “remember that they were once children.“

　　“Children see straight, without detours.“ ——Feng Zikai

　　In the adult world, we are accustomed to expressing ourselves in a roundabout way and to guessing others' thoughts. But on Children's Day, we can break this mold. When gathering with friends, we can finally unleash our emotions—laughing freely when happy and pouring out our sorrows when sad.

　　“From the balloon vendor, every child takes away a wish.“ ——Bei Dao

　　Bei Dao's poem captures the most touching traits of childhood - a light - hearted anticipation for the world. In this fast-paced world, maintaining a childlike heart means still being curious about the stars and willing to stop for a beautiful cloud. Adults celebrating Children's Day is a “romantic resistance“ against dullness and numbness.The dreams of adults that have been compressed by reality and the romance bound by rules will briefly awaken in the joyful atmosphere of Children's Day.

　　Quoting these aphorisms is not to justify “acting young,“ but to demonstrate that innocence is not about age, but a choice. This June 1st, claim your right to celebrate. Because nurturing the child within is the ultimate adulting.

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